Knowledge is power

In my experience, if there is one word that encapsulates the feeling of navigating complicated divorce, it’s powerlessness. Your world is suddenly flipped upside down. What you thought was true is not true. What you suspected was true is true. Suddenly, your kids are leaving to spend the night with dad and there’s nothing you can do about it. Your brain cannot keep up with all of the changes, cannot navigate in such turmoil.

This is where I, and many other high conflict divorce coaches/advocates, come in.

Working with me can look like a lot of different things. Like simply having a place to vent your anger and frustration as you move through an impossible situation. Like discussing distressing communication and coming up with effective strategies to protect your children and your sanity. Like understanding the Family Court System and its brokenness. Developing a plan to help you stabilize when you’re in the snow globe and you can’t think straight. A plan to come to grips with the reality of a world run by the patriarchy, a world that often rewards and glorifies narcissist’s behavior, a system and a world that honestly just isn’t fair. And developing a plan to move forward in spite of it all.

It looks like helping to streamline communication with your attorney to save you time and money. This frees them up to spend their time doing what they do best: speaking legalese, knowing what motions need to be filed when, how to navigate opposing counsel etc. It may look like helping direct you to you available resources. It looks like a place to be where your story is heard and there is hope on the horizon.